I’m Engaged, Now What?
Congratulations on your engagement! Getting engaged is such a big milestone in any relationship, and wedding planning is such a fun season for couples. You may be wondering where to begin as you start to think about planning your big day. Here are the top three things engaged couples getting married should do first.
Have an open discussion with your partner about key wedding planning decisions.
The first step in the wedding planning process is to sit down as a couple and have a conversation about three key wedding planning topics. First, establish who is involved in the decision-making process. Throughout the wedding planning journey, you’ll be faced with a ton of decisions. Where will the wedding take place? How many people will be invited? What is the overall vibe of the day? As you begin to think through all the initial considerations, you’ll also want to establish your overall budget. Talk with any of your key planning partners and gather the details you need to set a maximum wedding budget. Knowing your budget is going to be crucial to booking your dream team of wedding vendors. Lastly, talk with your partner about your top priorities for the wedding day. Perhaps your top priorities are the food, maybe it’s a rockin’ dance party, maybe it’s beautiful florals, or maybe it’s keeping sustainability top of mind. No matter what, it’s important to keep those priorities in mind as you begin to work through your budget and plan your wedding day.
Hire a wedding planner.
Your wedding day is one of the most important days of your life, and I’m a firm believer that you should be able to enjoy it! Like your engagement, your wedding day happens once, and it will be over in the blink of an eye! So why not hire someone who will allow the planning process to be stress-free and enjoyable? A wedding planner guides you in the decision-making process based on your priorities and budget. Planners are a sounding board: help you wade through all the options, and help to keep you on track. Plus, they allow you to be fully present on the day of your wedding!
Determine your VIPs and ensure they can attend on your ideal wedding date at your preferred location.
The third thing to do after getting engaged is to determine your VIPs - your loved ones you can’t imagine your wedding day without. Check with them to ensure they can attend on your ideal wedding date at your preferred location! Being transparent with your inner circle is a great step toward ensuring they’re all able to make it to your wedding day.
All in all, enjoy this incredible time of being engaged! Wedding planning tasks can quickly pile up, but I encourage you to take a step back and soak it all in before diving in too deeply. Booking a wedding planner will save you time and stress as you’re getting started, so reach out via our contact page if you think we could be a good fit! We can’t wait to hear about your dream wedding day!
